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Kassandra Lee & Carly Yashira

Spill the Chisme
Former poly couple, Kass and Carly spill the chisme on transitioning from an open marriage to breaking up to whatever their current relationship is supposed to be.
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Call your ex and ask him how he's doing.
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You wouldn't do it, call him, call him, call it.
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What's up everyone?
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It's your girl Cassandra and it's your girl Carly.
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And we've been together for five years, five years today.
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We're playing a game called Spill the Cheese, man.
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We're gonna ask each other some questions and if we don't wanna
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answer, we're gonna eat a pepper and the spicier, the question
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the spicier, the pepper bring on the heat.
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Let's go and bring it on.
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What was the first thing that you noticed about me?
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Be honest.
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I mean, how honest can I be here?
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Be honest.
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I guess you wanna eat a pepper.
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No, no, no.
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Um No, I noticed your smile because the first thing you did
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to me was go, hey, and I was just like, OK, smile and energy and
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then sorry.
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OK.
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Who's a better cook?
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You or me?
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Come on, be honest.
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Honestly, I'm gonna say me, I feel like you're gonna fight
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me on that.
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You're right.
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Her bagel does come out better than mine.
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OK?
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Do not play me.
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Do not even play me.
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What's your biggest i with your partner.
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A k, probably when you eat sunflower seeds late at night.
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Um, and I find sunflower seeds for the rest of the year.
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You're exaggerating.
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Not an exaggeration.
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I'm inviting the whole crew to the house for them to find some
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flower seeds.
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What's the pettiest thing you've done to me?
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Oh, I want to hear this.
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I'd like to think.
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I'm not petty.
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I'm not really, I'm not really petty.
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I can't think of.
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Yeah.
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You make a pepper.
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You, I'm gonna have a pepper because I really can't think of
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a petty, I think, you know, a lot.
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I imagine that this probably isn't too bad because it's the
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first pepper.
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So it should be ok.
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Ok.
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It's not too bad.
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All right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Well, when did you realize that you wanted to make our ruffle
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official?
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Oh, that's a spicy one.
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That's a spicy one.
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When I realized we were all feeling the same things.
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We were all falling for each other.
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We were all in love.
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When did you realize you were gay or bisexual?
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Damn.
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She met me?
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I don't know.
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I would say like, early twenties, that kind of, I was exploring
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and then maybe, you know what, I actually didn't know that
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I was bisexual until I met you.
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To be serious.
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When I met you, you told me you were straight?
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Yeah.
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I mean, because I had never, you know, I've been with a woman
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so I was, I was Right.
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And I'm, who is a better cook?
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Your mom or mine?
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Oh, my mom.
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Wow.
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She didn't, she didn't even eat a ruthless I told you, I don't
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like spicy.
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So I'm an open book today.
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Fannie.
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I love you.
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And your empanadas are amazing.
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But my mom can literally go into a kitchen and have no idea what
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she's going to cook and make something and it'll taste delicious
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She's like, that's the last time I make you empanadas.
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She knows how much I don't like peppers.
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So I think she understands who lost the most friends with the
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breakup.
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Oh, him or you him.
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That was a pretty easy one.
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If you had to choose one of your own friends to make out with
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who would you choose?
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Girl?
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What do you mean?
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I'm totally.
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Oh Are you?
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Oh, please?
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I mean, I've made out with a few already so I'm just spilling
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all the cheese man down jasmine.
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Why not a girl?
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Jazzy?
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Uh girl jazzy.
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Yeah, I'm totally fine with.
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I know, I know I knew it was a safe answer.
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It's a safe answer.
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All right.
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So the last picture you took.
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I OK.
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I mean, I can, I can show you all that.
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You know, she's lying.
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It's a cute selfie.
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So, yeah, a little selfie moment.
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My selfie.
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What annoys you the most about me.
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Yeah.
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If you don't wanna answer the question, you can just eat the
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pepper.
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Nothing is an answer.
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No.
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Yes.
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Take a bite of that pepper.
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You better, you better take a bigger bite.
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No, I didn't see the rule.
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That was not in the rule book.
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Ok.
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This is so fun for me.
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What was the last thing that we argued about?
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I'm gonna eat a pepper on this one because it's not that spicy
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is it?
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It's spicy.
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Oh, yeah.
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Oh, that's spicy.
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Oh, my God.
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You must be dying.
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Do you still communicate with our ex's family?
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No, I want to sometimes, like I get the urge to, they were my
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family for 10 years.
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So it just feels weird to not be able to reach out and ask how
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anyone's doing.
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So that kind of breaks my heart.
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Yeah.
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Who brings in more money?
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See, um, you do, what do you miss most about being in our ruffle
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I miss someone taking out the garbage.
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Uh, yeah, when we order food and if they can't figure out how
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to be buzzed up, someone will go down and bring it up.
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Uh, I just, uh, that's pretty much it.
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What's the last secret you told me?
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It will no longer be a secret if I don't remember.
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It does.
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I mean, I have to eat the pepper.
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I can't eat it.
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All right.
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All right.
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Why did I take such a big bite?
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Oh, my God.
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I wanna know.
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Tell me more.
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Oh, I could smell this.
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Oh, my God.
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She said.
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And from here.
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I smelled the spice.
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Oh, my God.
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I'm not.
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Ok.
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What is your biggest fear in this relationship do we have?
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I mean, well, you might start crying, you might start crying
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No, the biggest fear in this relationship is that my life would
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be too much for you and you'll realize you'll realize you would
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want something else.
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I don't know.
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Ok.
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So, your fear is losing me, losing it.
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It's my fear too.
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Ok.
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Ok.
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Oh, shoot.
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It's for both of us.
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What do you think is one of my low key nasty habits?
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So, what's my nasty habit?
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And I'm gonna tell them you're a nasty habit.
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So, tell me first.
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What are you gonna say?
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Ok.
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Wait, do you know what I'm gonna say?
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Ok.
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You want to say yours?
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What is it?
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Ah.
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Oh, man.
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Well, cheers.
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Oh my God.
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So spicy.
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Holy.
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Oh, no, no.
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Say it.
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Call your ex and ask him how he's doing.
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Are you?
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Yeah.
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What if I did it though?
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Is it worth this pepper?
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You wouldn't do it?
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Call him.
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Call him.
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Mhm.
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Oh.
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Oh, that would, I'm so glad you got that question and it wasn't
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me.
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Yeah.
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Oh, my God.
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Ok.
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Oh, no.
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First please.
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Is it a cousin?
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What was your worst memory of our relationship?
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The worst memory.
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Uh, I felt bad answering that question.
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I was always a pepper.
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Yeah, I need to put, yeah, it is torture.
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I hate it here.
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Never again.
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This is for both of us.
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Which one of my friends do you like the least, the least.
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I do not want to answer that question.
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That means you're gonna have to eat a peerage question.
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I don't wanna, I don't wanna name and all of my friends are so
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supportive.
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I love all of your friends.
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I like all of your friends.
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But there's one that I like a little less.
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Me too.
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Like I know which friend I'm thinking of.
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I just don't know if I wanna say the name you're gonna have to
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or you're gonna have to eat that horrible.
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Are you gonna answer the question?
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I'm gonna answer it.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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This doesn't mean I don't like you.
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I like you.
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Who are you about to say?
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I don't even know.
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I like you.
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I said it.
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OK?
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Damn.
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You really said it.
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I like her though.
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I know.
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I know you do like her.
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You do like her.
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All right.
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I'm doing the pepper.
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I cannot think of a name and I can't handle the pressure.
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OK?
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All right.
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Go ahead and go for it.
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But for some reason, I don't know how you're able to even do
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it because I'm because it would be both answer and you or you
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both don't answer.
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You better say the name.
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I just took a, I just had a pepper who you don't like.
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No, I just need to know.
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I need to know look at this.
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You know, I thought you loved me.
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I do love you.
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I'm eating this small house but I cannot hang again with that
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If you had to choose one of your own friends to bring into our
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relationship, who would you choose y'all?
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I'm not gonna say any of our guy friends because they're gonna
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get, know how that's gonna go.
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I'm gonna go with our jazzy.
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What's up?
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What's up?
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Yeah.
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Would you be with us?
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We're asking, we're asking you to be around.
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Weird.
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That was, I was the most honest.
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I even took one because you didn't answer one.
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It's ok.
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You're a winner.
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But that was good though.
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I think you should eat one just because I had to eat one.
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I already had more peppers in you.
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I had more.
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I took one for the team.
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Now you win the job.