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@Reallifegal on Latinos with White Names

March 24, 2025
Influencer Galilea Mendez breaks down why giving Latino kids white names can be confusing to our abuelas.
Show transcript
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Hey guys, so our next guest,
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she's been going viral on TikTok and this video we're gonna talk
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about first, it hit the nail on the head for me
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it struck a chord.
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When Latinos have babies and don't give their children Hispanic names,
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it makes me laugh because you know you're wrong as hell for
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giving your children names that the rest of your family cannot pronounce
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You name your kids whatever the hell you want,
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but don't be mad when little Cameron starts being called Camaron by
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his abuela. I just had a kid.
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I was conflicted on what to name her and so I feel
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like this kind of hits,
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you know, the,
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the thoughts that I had.
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But anyways, we have Galilea joining us all the way from
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Germany,, so real life girl on TikTok.
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Welcome to the show.
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Thanks for having me.
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Of course you've been killing it on TikTok.
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You have a lot of hot takes,
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and people they either love it or they hate it,
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but people are, are talking.
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I was talking about the video that you had that went viral
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where you talk about,
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you know, Latinos and,
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taking, you know,
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naming their kids non-Latino names.
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Yeah, why do you think some Latino parents choose more like
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Americanized. Names for their kids.
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I feel like there's a couple of reasons.
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A big one that I saw is a lot of parents try
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to fight discrimination. Like they don't want their kid if they
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have like a super Hispanic name to maybe miss out on job
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offers and stuff. And I do understand that,
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but then at the same time it's like,
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OK, if the first name doesn't give it away,
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let's say you name your kid Wilson,
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but then it's like Wilson.
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Medina Gonzalez. It's like,
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well, we still kind of know that they're Latino.
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I think another big reason is just like the want and need
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for a unique name.
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I feel like everyone has a cousin,
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Maria Jose. everyone has had that moment with their parent is
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like, Juan, no,
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Jose, I mean.
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like maybe maybe if you have like a more unique or like
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anglicized name that doesn't happen as often,
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but I'm curious now on your because my so we need my
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daughter Isabella. Is that still OK or is that too basic
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too crazy? Isabella and then Perez.
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I'm like yeah I feel like it's it's a classic.
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Izzy Izzy, Isabella.
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I don't. Bella well,
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Bella's a little, yeah,
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I honestly though, that's what's funny too,
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right? Like if you give them a name and then you
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already know the Latino parents are gonna make fun of the name
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Like my cousin,
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she had,,
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she, her name is Cynthia,
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and they would call her Sindientes like the,
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the stuff that they come up with,
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right? Like I always see was it Savannah,
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Savannah, like she,
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I'm like come on y'all,
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but, what's it called?
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We checked some of the comments obviously because we were nosy.
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The comment section is even sometimes more wild than actual video.
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So this first one is from Chelas.
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That's her,,
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screening. My BF wants to name our future kid Logan.
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I literally looked at him and said,
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think of how your grandma would say that.
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So it's kind of like your,
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your point, like Logan,
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Logan's not too bad though.
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I feel like a lot of the times though,
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like it's never just.
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Logan, it's Logan.
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That's true. That's true.
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And then there's this other one.
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Imagine meeting a three year old named Faustolo.
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Laughing. It's like Gary.
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It's like a baby named Gary kind of vibe.
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I like it. I feel like that baby is an old
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soul. That baby is wise beyond their years.
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And then we have Lucy.
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Nah, name your kids whatever you want.
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They are your kids,
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not your parents or families,
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so name them whatever you want.
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But Then someone named Ayo,
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which I think is probably like a burner accounts,
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but nah, I love my parents.
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And then Lucy said,
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so do I. What's your point?
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Whenever you post like a video,
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there's always like a reaction and you don't know if that reactions
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can be good or bad.
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And like you can just say one thing,
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but someone takes it a different way and can get really mad
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Like I saw so many comments that were like,
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Well, you don't get to have an opinion because you don't
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have any. And it's like,
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thank God, thank God I don't have kids.
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I want kids right now.
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But switching gears, you have another video that also got again
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people riled up.
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Men have gotten so comfortable calling women tortas like their mothers and
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sisters aren't shaped the same.
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And since we're making unnecessary comments on other people's bodies,
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a lot of y'all have receding hairlines and your beards don't connect
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It's giving peons in.
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Rico. What, what was going through your mind when you
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made this video? I just feel like men get too comfortable
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commenting on women's bodies,
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which is like crazy because a lot of the time people only
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have that energy in real life.
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Like a lot of the time I feel like these men that
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feel so confident online,
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calling women all of these names are the same men that stand
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at the wall at parties,
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never dancing, never talking.
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And then the next morning text you like,
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I wanted to say hi last night,
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but I was too shy.
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Like, shut up.
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Yeah. I think a lot of things is like saying one
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thing to your girl,
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oh yeah, baby,
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I love you, you know,
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you're the world but like like in your video,
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keep the energy for all like women.
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It's just. And like,
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why, why only advocate for women that you're attracted to?
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Exactly, like, I don't know.
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Well, look, I also know you're calling from Europe right
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now. How does it feel to like see our show over
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here in the US?
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It's always so funny because I'm one of the few Americans that
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I know here. So all of the non-Americans,
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whenever like something crazy happens in the US,
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which is every day,
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just ask me like,
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Is it true that you guys can't afford eggs?
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Like, oh my God,
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I can't believe that you and it's just like every time I'm
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just like Yeah. So are you gonna wait it out in
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Germany for a bit,
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or are you thinking of coming back with this whole Trump,
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you know, I'm here because of school.
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I'm getting my master's out here,
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so the program is minimum 2 years,
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so who knows? And then,
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of course, Germany has its own show as well too.
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Like people are very anti-immigrant here as well.
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We can't catch a break anywhere.
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It does have its history.
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well, that's what I'm saying,
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it does have its history.
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Everywhere has its problems,
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so this is true.
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But anyways, we can keep yapping forever,
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but we'll let you go.
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But before we do,
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plug your socials so people can follow you.
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OK,, you mentioned my TikTok.
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It's at reallifegal, and on Instagram you can find me at
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Galilea MNDZ. Thank you so much,
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Galilea. We had a great time talking to you.
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Thank you so much for having me and congratulations on your master's
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That's freaking awesome.
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We're so proud. It's awesome.