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OK. Does your mom say that?
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She does? And it's funny because the word is actually Arabic
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Really? What the heck?
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So, Oka is actually an evolution of an Arabic phrase that
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translates to God willing.
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Exactly. Mind blown.
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It's not just the language though.
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Tacos past actually come from le as well,
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but the culture go so much more deeper than that.
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The Moors actually colonized Spain.
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Oh, so they colonized Spain and before Spain colonized me.
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Exactly. And so then they were already kind of,
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you know, they had their little mix going on and they
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brought it over to Mexico.
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For example, there's like other words that we see this influence
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in, right? We see Ace Oil Azucar.
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I thought that was Celia Cruz.
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I'm just kidding. She,
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she coined it derived from an Arabic word Alon.
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OK. Yeah, they have all those words have Arabic origins
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Is that why I'm attracted to Arabics?
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I'm just kidding. That might just be,
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your type is a whole another situation.
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Let's find out. I mean,
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there's a science there.
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Yeah, maybe so we found the perfect person to break down
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this culture fusion. Let's welcome our Arabic Latina queen Aisha ra
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aha. So we wanted to ask,
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what was it like growing up as a kid who was mixed
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both Latina and Arabic?
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How was that? Definitely chaotic being a mixed kid is something
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that's more normalized now.
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But definitely growing up,
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I was the only Latino Arab that I knew aside from other
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celebrities. That's cool though.
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I love that. I love that mix.
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I mean a little personal but like,
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I, I don't know why I'm really attracted to Arabic men
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I'm like, that's my thing.
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I want to have BB king girl.
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I hear this from a lot of Latinas and I say the
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same thing to all of them be care,
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what's the red flag Arab men are just as toxic as Latinos
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OK? You have a brother.
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I'm just kidding. I'm joking.
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No, I actually I have three sisters.
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We'll get back into it,
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girl. So who are some celebs that are mixed?
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So more commonly known is definitely Shakira.
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She's Korean and Lebanese Salma Hayek,
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Jaime Camil and Peso Puma whose real name is actually Hassan Hasan
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And speaking of you said Peso Puma.
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So that makes me think parties de Madre,
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which side part is harder.
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That's a really good question because for my mix specifically,
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we all know Mexicans know how to party but Lebanese in the
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Middle East are also known as the partier.
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So I would say for my mix specifically,
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it's a little bit harder.
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Maybe with different countries in Latin America or the Middle East,
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it would be a little easier.
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But both of my countries are known as the party countries.
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And speaking of parties,
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the food also, right?
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What things, I guess you have you noticed like food
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wise or even just language wise that like,
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people don't notice that they're in both cultures or like how similar
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they are like a dish.
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Like again, the tacos Ara a pastor is the first one
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But yeah, actually Tacos Del Pastor was brought over by the
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Lebanese when a large flux of Lebanese immigrants came over to Latin
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America. They originally used sheep like lamb meat for it.
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But then the Mexicans changed it to pork meat.
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But that's why it's called El Pastor because this name Pastor comes
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for like the name of the pastors that would raise the sheep
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and things like this.
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And I think there's no denying that things like PICO de gallo
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and Tabula, the tastes are different.
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The setup and the ingredients that are used is very similar as
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well. Wait, what was the dish you said PICO de
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gallo? What was the other one?
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I saw your post and it was basically referring to how both
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cultures you get it from both cultures about having kids and like
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the pressure to have kids.
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Can you explain more about that?
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Yeah, absolutely. I think it's common in both Latin and
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in, out of culture for you to get young,
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to get married to have babies.
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And I obviously I'm feeling that pressure as well even though
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I'm young and in my twenties,
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but I would say the biggest issue that I come across is
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someone accepting me fully as I am as we know in
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Latin culture. and the same exists in,
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out of culture as well.
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Like racial purity is a big thing.
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So oftentimes when I get recommended or if I find somebody that
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I'm interested in, usually their families are a little bit hesitant
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like, oh, she's half Mexican.
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We're not interested in that or the same thing on my Latino
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side. If I find someone who's a Latino partner,
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it's kind of the same thing.
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Wow, that's interesting.
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That's still a thing in 2024.
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Which side is putting more pressure on you to have the kids
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like ASAP? Is it like Mexican side or Arabic side?
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You know, that's a really good question because I feel like
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the pressure more so comes from my communities than it does my
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families individualistically because my mother already broke so many rules marrying a
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Mexican man like she was supposed to have an arranged marriage two
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different times. She didn't want them,
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you know, and then all of a sudden she brings this
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Mexican guy around and was shunned from the community,
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was shunned from family,
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I was given different perspectives from both of my individual families that
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that the communities,
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people who come from one race,
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one ethnicity, they're not as familiar with.
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they always tell me the most important thing is to find someone
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who respects you, who loves you for who you are.
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All of you, the Mexican side,
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you know, everything in between.
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that's really my experience,
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I can't say for anybody else's.
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But the pressure definitely comes from the individual communities.
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People don't even know what's going on,
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but they always have something to say.
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thank you so much Asia.
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we wanted to ask how can people find you on social
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media? Yeah, absolutely.
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I'm la underscore Latina underscore Arabia.
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So that's La Latina Arabia,
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Aisha Maria range on all social media platforms.
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And I'm excited to do more content about what it's like being
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a mixed woman for Arab Heritage Month,
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but also for Cinco de Mayo and all of the future things
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Awesome. Well, thank you so much for your time and
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we'll see you around.
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Yeah, absolutely. Thank you guys so much for having me
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much is Gracia Shukran and Jazil and hopefully we can do this
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again sometime. Definitely,
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