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Listen, family first always.
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But when it comes to guys with Ma Mitis,
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it might be too much today.
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We have entertainment host Melissa Rios in the house to talk about
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this phenomenon. Hi,
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Melissa. Listen, I should I wait or do I start
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talking? Because I've been ready for this.
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To be honest, I'm a little conflicted.
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I'm a mom of three and I got boys,
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three beautiful boys and I can only hope that they are as
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at 10 as loving as caring for me.
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And that's the first thing I saw.
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I I Mira Que Muchacho Tam Buenos su but then the more
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I saw the videos I saw it like five times.
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wait, is she carrying a baby?
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Like when you look at the video,
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she has a baby in her arms,
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the bride, the bride and she like kind of gives the
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baby back. And so at this point,
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I'm just kind of like,
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oh, he's one of them,
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one of the guys Que deja toda la posa even on the
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wedding day and he's just not even self aware,
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Tenia Gare Mia walk her down the steps,
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yeah, and it takes someone to be self aware
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like right now the moment.
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Exactly because it's nice.
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Like my mom, she's always told me Mira Mija Uncut Unico
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IVA and contra un buen esposo.
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But it's like, hold up.
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That ain't always the case.
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Porque. I feel like it's sometimes a little too much,
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you know, like there's a time,
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like you said, there is a balance.
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I mean, they say see the way he treats his mother
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and that's the way he's going to treat you.
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He treats you with love and respect.
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I mean, you can expect the same,
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but there is a bit of a balance.
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as a woman, as a mother,
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it's going to be up to me to make sure that I
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set those boundaries because my kids are always going to want to
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come and eat at home and be with mommy.
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But did your wife cook?
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Why don't you go home to your wife is?
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You know, and she should have been like go walk out
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with your wife and I'll meet you outside.
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So have you ever dated someone with Mais?
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I have and I took the approach like you can't be fighting
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cone. Do you know what I mean?
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Because a lot of times it becomes like a competition,
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And it's like you're never going to take his mom's place but
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then also Senora yaa Sujo.
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Puede Anton says so you gotta know that we're in two different
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lanes and I just don't take it personal.
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La Senora. She wants to ride in the front seat.
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Siente Se Senoras. La Senora wants to cook,
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You know what I mean?
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Like she wants to be with her son all day,
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every day. Yves Por Flo Tambe.
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Can you please iron his clothes?
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Like I just, I'm not gonna fight over it.
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but I do know that there are some Senora I've dealt
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with them for a little bit and it obviously didn't work out
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and I feel like there's a difference between a regular mama's boy
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and full on like a man with Mais.
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When is it too much?
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I feel like Mait at Mama's boy,
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there's a difference because one with Matis,
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he cannot make decisions without his mom.
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And a mama's boy is just a man who a boy who
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grew up loving and appreciating his mom.
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So there's a big difference.
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And I feel like once like,
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you know, you're the wife,
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it's like come on like you kinda like I'm your,
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I'm your wife, I'm the mother of your kids.
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Like you kinda have to put me like,
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you know, first sometimes at least are my kids watching this
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video. No, Mijo Primero Primero Luego.
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Se Puede dear. I would never,
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you're right. It's true.
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As women, sometimes we set those boundaries for men.
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Like, would you put your mom second?
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I think, I think my husband like the,
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And then if you ask a man that and he says,
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and he's struggling, it's like,
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oh red flag, red flag.
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And it's like if you ask me if I would put a
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man above my mother,
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I instant no, I wouldn't.
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My mom needs to move in.
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She's coming. But for some reason,
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we expect for the man to be like I have to ask
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my wife for him not to give the answers that way,
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I don't know. Maybe I've just spent a lot of time
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thinking of my nuer.
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So yeah, I'm for family taking care of each other
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Just boundaries. Senora,
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Nosa Metic and Esposa.
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Keep the Suegra for Ira.
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Melissa for coming on and talking to us about this.
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And also where can people follow you?
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Oh, please follow me on Instagram at I'm Melissa Rios,
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youtube. And you can also follow my podcast pac Calle podcast
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Yay. Let's give her another round guys.
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