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Kicking it with me today is actress Chelsea Rendon.
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Mere Chelsea. I know we talked about it before the show
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So it's rough. I'm going to say this with as much
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respect but like guys,
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y'all damn lame a couple of weeks ago.
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it's like single summer trying to be out there.
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I'm also like a serial monogamist and I like relationships.
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So I was trying to like,
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Let me just date and like be chill.
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I had three dates flake on me within like 2.5 weeks.
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Really? Yeah. And they were like dates,
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hangouts, not like even an official or anything but like it
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was just like, let's go have a drink like,
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yeah, cool meet at my place and walk to the bar
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nearby all like last minute.
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I'm going back in the house,
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I'm going back in the house because it's like this is it
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show up bare minimum,
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just show up. It's not that hard.
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I agree. I'm with you.
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I had a better weekend and that's all I'm gonna say about
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this. You're like that's it.
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No details. I had a better weekend,
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dude. I, that's the thing too with dating.
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I don't judge when other girls do this because do you book
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whatever makes you happy?
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But on me II I can't hook up like hook up culture
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Like because you also de la seno Morada.
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Like if something happen,
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that's, that's real.
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And again, I'm a hopeless romantic.
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So like, it's funny because in my early twenties I hooked
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up and it was no big deal but like,
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I got single like six months ago and like had my first
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hook up and it was awkward.
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But then it was like,
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am I able to do this casually or not?
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Like it's hard. It's hard right now for a serious question
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Is somebody gonna match my free?
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So Chelsea, what's your free?
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So the funny thing is naturally you think dirty stuff,
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right? But I think it's more along the terms of match
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my energy because of the song.
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It's like, you know what I mean?
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it's match the energy.
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Like again, like I had to grow up very quickly,
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like acting at five,
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like I had to be mature for my age and all that
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naturally I'm a kid inside.
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So like, I'm very silly and playful and joking around and
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just being like, dumb.
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I'm not gonna slash your tires crazy.
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You know what I mean?
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I'm not that type of chick but I'm the crazy.
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That's like, let's go over here at two o'clock in the
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morning and just see what happens.
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Spontaneous. No, I get you too.
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And what's your, what's your,
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I can't be with someone that's super,
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super serious that like if I'm being silly being myself,
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hey, tone it down like like don't act like that like
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no, I know motherfuckers have told me like,
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well, yeah, sometimes you can be too immature.
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I am joking. I am played now when shit needs to
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get done. I step the fuck up and I do what
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I gotta do. But if I'm at home,
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I'm going to be like come home,
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So I know you're a tia too.
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You're a millennial tia.
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I'm a millennial tia.
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So what would you say are the perks of being like a
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cool tia? So I technically helped raise my niece at 15
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So I feel like I was a parent from 15 to
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25 and then that's when I moved out,
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I gotta be on my own in my life and stop being
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a dad. But so like for me it's be like again
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being able to play with the little baby.
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Oh Wait, it's crying.
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wait and poop. Here you go.
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Or like, now you're being a little dumb now.
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Go away. You know what I mean?
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that's the perks. Like,
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truthfully I actually don't want kids.
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the randomest or like the only Latina that does not want kids
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I already did. They're like,
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sickick coming into my bed or the late night this and the
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taking to school and the homework.
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Like, so I had that experience.
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So I'm like, I don't want no kids and like,
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especially people are like,
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wait, what you cannot,
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you don't want kids,
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leave them up. And I'm like,
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love my career. I wanna be able to go and do
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whatever I want, be working 10 months out of the year
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and not feel guilty about it.
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So like when you go out with guys,
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like, do you tell them like straightforward?
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Like, look, I'm being straightforward.
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I don't want kids is not necessarily no,
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but I think it's something that you bring up at the beginning
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Like I know in my last relationship,
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like within like a few weeks,
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it was like when we were first just talking,
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I don't, I want kids in Fy,
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I, I'm never moving out of where I live.
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So you're gonna have to move to me.
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this is where I live for work for everything so well,
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mind you also, I'm open to the fact that that could
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change like you. But I just felt so much power in
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making the decision that I had a choice about or I hate
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I hate when they're like,
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oh well who's gonna take care of you when you're older?
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It's like like bitch,
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I'm gonna take part modality like don't put that on your kids
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you know, don't put it on them.
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I'm gonna be balling that I can hire people to take,
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I'm gonna take care of myself.
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There you go. Oh well,
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thank you so much Chelsea.
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This is fun and where can we tune in and keep,
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you know, keep up with you online.
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I am a basic bitch and my handles are literally just at
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Chelsea Rendon on Instagram and Twitter.
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I did a short like two months ago.
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I'm doing another short next week actually.
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And then I'm producing a short.
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So I'm like excited to at least be doing something.
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I'm trying to like get a producer hat,
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like talking to some people right now about producing a feature.
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we were talented. We're cooking,
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we're cooking, even if things are slow,
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we cooking, it's all good.
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It's going to get busy.
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But thank you so much Chelsea
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