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Brother. Have you heard of a Kid Free Wedding?
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We tried to have a kid Free Wedding but it didn't work
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out that way. So they brought their kids anyway.
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We were bringing our babies.
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They said Chinga su and like I try to stay firm.
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But my wife was like,
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oh you know, my nephews are so cute.
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it's a growing trend that people are having no kids at their
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wedding. So you get married.
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Do you want kids at your wedding?
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No, no, because I mean,
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look, it's different,
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I think it's different when it's your special day.
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You know, you took a long time to plan it.
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You want, you want it to be a certain way and
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you know, kids will be kids.
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it's not so much that I I don't dislike kids just because
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you don't want kids at your wedding means that you're anti Kidd
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Cathy Breo just had a kid Free Wedding and her video actually
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went viral on tiktok girl D you too because it was
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that like she decided to have a kid free wedding and a
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lot of people had different opinions about it.
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So, let's hear it from her.
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Hi. Yeah. And with the trending video,
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I know this sound probably offended people.
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But, yeah, I'm not against,
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I love kids, but it was just to show that I
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had a kid free wedding.
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I don't judge you for the sound.
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I feel like it was going viral.
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That sound was like a popular sound and I think that it
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like I laughed at the sound,
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the sound, what's the,
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what's the sound? The sound was ok.
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I don't know if you heard it on tiktok but it said
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oh fuck your kids and fuck you too.
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It girl, fuck them kids and fuck you.
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I have a kid now and I still say fuck them kids
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because sometimes they, like you said,
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kids are gonna be kids over there.
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But we wanted to ask you Khy first off.
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Thank you so much for joining us.
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We wanted to ask why did you and your partner
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decide to go like child free when it came to your wedding
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And whose idea was it?
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So since the very beginning,
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I think we were both,
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we both agreed that we wanted no kids at our wedding.
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And I think I was probably the first one that mentioned it
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but he was totally on board with it and was like
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yeah, let's not have kids.
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We would just see like,
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you know, hear stories from people,
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relatives, friends, you know,
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kids running around and we would even see videos.
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I'm sure you guys have seen videos on tiktok where the couples
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having the first dance and the kids are running around and I
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just wanted to avoid all that.
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Also. Our venue was really big and I don't want that
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responsibility of the kids getting lost or,
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you know, having to talk on the mic like,
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hey, I'm looking for my kid.
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I just didn't want to have any of that and I just
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wanted everybody to have a day where they can just enjoy themselves
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and not have to worry about like the kids taking care of
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them or having to leave early because the kids are tired or
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they're bored and I think we were pretty successful with that.
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Definitely. And I did this,
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did this decision upset anyone in your family or no?
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They, they all understood everyone agreed.
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And I think, I think it's because like in my family
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there's a lot more like older kids and even then there's kind
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of like if they didn't end up going,
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it would have been respected.
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And from my husband's side,
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they gave him a few calls,
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but we just made no exceptions because we didn't want to let
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one kid go. And then at the I was going to
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we just wanted to avoid all the getting people upset.
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So we just made it a general rule and yeah,
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I was like security tackle the kids and the parents get kids
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It's intense. But we brought up some good reasons that
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aren't selfish to you,
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but like, are also making the parents again enjoy themselves.
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Like having that responsibility.
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Like I feel like you said a lot,
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these parents have kids that are older.
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So definitely that mindset of like,
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I need a night to myself and this is it.
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And if you can't enjoy the party,
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then maybe again, don't waste your babysitter,
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you know, on that one event,
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I guess you could say.
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And our wedding lasted until four in the morning.
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So I'm pretty sure the kids would have been tired.
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They were sleeping on the chair.
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Exactly. Exactly. With the f the,
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the, but I do remember my sisters were like,
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20 years apart and she got married in the early nineties and
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I was probably four or five and she had an old kid
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wedding. So me and my nephews were kind of around the
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same age in Mexican household.
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So we went to just have dinner and then they took us
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back home and left us with a babysitter.
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I mean, I'm not mad at her that I wasn't at
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her wedding. It was tiny.
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So, and I think because it could just allow adults to
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just kind of let loose and have more fun.
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Not worry about knocking a kid over because there's a toddler on
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the dance floor. Yeah,
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I get you. And I was worried for the day of
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my wedding if anybody was just going to show up with their
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kids. But I made it very clear like I put it
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on the wedding website.
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I put it on my invitation even when they were RSD te
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we would give them a reminder.
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Hey, there's no kids.
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It also helps save a lot of wedding when you have no
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kids. Just throw that out there.
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Well, thank you so much Cathy.
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We really appreciate you coming on and telling us more about your
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wedding and why you decided to go kid free on it.
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No secu. But thank you for having me.
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Of course, of course.
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Thank you for coming on.
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Congrats. That's smart.
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She put it everywhere.
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Yeah, it's like email website.
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I would put it at the door too.
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Oh, well, actually I know someone in here who was
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a little kid that was Travieso and Tumb Pinche Pastel de Sua
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on her wedding. So this little guy it was like Joel
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that is Joel. So this is the cake.
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This is with antes like literally before the mayhem.
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And that's the, that's the little Diablito Del Travis.
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He looks so innocent,
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so sweet. How did you dunk it over?
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Let's play hide and seek with the hide and seek.
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He was playing the table under the table.
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Oh my gosh. So this is why guys,
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this is why I'm choosing to get free even though with Mira
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Lo V Hermoso, he's a cute little kid.
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It's like a sour patch kid,
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but they're cuter at home on your wedding.
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But any who let's move on.
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