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Listen, I'm entering my Hot Girl Summer era and I am
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not holding back. I like to hear but I do want
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to proceed with caution.
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It's like hot girl summer but with like standards,
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that's where I'm going.
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So here to help me out is Leon Pay who just released
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her single? Good enough.
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Yeah. What's up guys?
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How are you so happy to be here sharing with you and
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Yes. Oh So you're starting Hot Girl summer.
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last summer wasn't so hot but it was like more healing girl
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summer. But now it's hot girl summer.
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This is the real version getting it in.
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We're getting it in the summer we're getting in it.
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So what is it with Dominican men?
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Like why are they a universal red flag?
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And why do I kind of still want one red flag?
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I don't know what you're talking about.
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That's the problem. That's the biggest red flag that the thing
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is that OK, I'm going to try to say this in
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English, but there are some words that I cannot replace Dominican
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men are bros. They're like,
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you know, in general terms,
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Caribbean people we are very like warm and we always like Cercano
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obviously it's that per exponent Seattle.
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If they see that you're just walking by and they see that
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you're cute. They're going to let you know,
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and at the same time they like the,
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I think they love attention.
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So they, they like to just say what they think,
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see the reaction and just promise you the world and just putting
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they put you up here and then suddenly,
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you know, the true colors start to emerge.
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Dominican men tend to be a little at the end.
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They're traditional, they're traditional dudes so they get jealous if I
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remember that for now,
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I'm in a very nice relationship from all the Dominican men.
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I think I got one of the exceptions.
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Yeah, they're super charming at the end and that's why
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you want one us girls,
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you know, we would love to hear.
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But then suddenly I want someone to be obsessed with me.
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They pretend to be obsessed,
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but then they're doing that same thing with two other girls and
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then it's like damn.
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But I thought you were obsessed with me and then to solo
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And so we were laughing.
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I think, I think I need some advice as well.
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So what are the guidelines to a successful situation?
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The guidelines are always communication for everything,
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not only situations but relationships,
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platonic things. Anything if I like you,
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I'm going to tell you,
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like, straightforward for real and a come on.
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Damn. That would make me literally melt.
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you like, do you like that?
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Because I think that's so much easier too.
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I hate playing games.
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Like, oh, my mom would be like,
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Mika don't show too much.
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straight, like, I don't like to play games.
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I like to be straightforward and talking about your song,
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Tam. What inspired the song for you?
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It hits home for real.
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It hits home. I've always been like the funny girl,
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the funny one but it the hot and funny girl.
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No, I worked on that girl.
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So, yeah, I was not like someone who used to
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have relationships early on,
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I don't know if the guys were intimidated by me,
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maybe rough. I tried to change to be accepted but the
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fact that I was not being myself always como la luz iae
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pore Razon, como Que la Cosas.
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People can see when you're just like when you're far from your
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real essence. And it's funny because as soon as I realized
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you know what, I'm tired,
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I'm just going to have fun.
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I'm just going to free myself and be yourself.
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Don't let anyone dim your sparkle.
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That's the thing. Don't minimize your personality.
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You're going to want someone at the end of the day that
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ignites you. So I was single for a while.
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I was having fun and I was having so much fun that
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I met someone and obviously I was like,
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let's just have fun.
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I don't want nothing serious with you.
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Not, no, because I wasn't interested in now.
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I mask. So we fall in love.
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You give me lots of hope because that's,
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that's where I'm at right now.
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you know what I wanna have fun.
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but I'm not looking for it.
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And where can people follow you and listen to your music?
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I am everywhere you know,
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Instagram, Spotify, Apple Music,
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Awesome. Thank you so much,
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girl, I appreciate you having me on the show.
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