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We are here with the queen.
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Harvey. Ha. I love you guys.
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Gas me up, keep doing it.
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OK, so we have you here and I want to
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ask you how can I improve my aura?
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Because I'm trying to be as confident as I can this summer
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It's definitely like a thing that builds.
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I would say I wouldn't say that maybe in my twenties,
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like my early twenties,
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oh my God, I turned 29.
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So I mean, my last year,
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I'm trying to make it the best but I started,
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you know, pretty insecure actually,
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it's very common, it's a regular thing to go through.
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don't be scared, but I would say just not giving a
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fuck anymore. And as you get older you realize like,
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oh shit doesn't really matter like that.
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And it's more so just about worrying about your own opinions about
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yourself rather than worrying about others because everyone's going to be hating
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everyone's going to have something to say and it's just not
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I think it's much better to start looking at yourself in the
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best way possible. I don't do the negative self talk
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Like that's just like a big no,
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a household of just me and my cat.
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So we're only speaking great things into ourselves,
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right? We have to speak life into ourselves.
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And I want to ask to like,
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can you hit on guys first?
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And like, how do you do it?
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I've bagged my man so that it took me two years but
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I'm not shy about that.
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I feel like, you know,
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we're grown. We can say that we're interested in someone.
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And also that's also like low key rejection therapy,
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which really helps like if they reject you love,
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that's fine. It's redirect you baby.
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Keep moving, keep it pushing and yeah,
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all you got to be like,
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What are you doing tomorrow?
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Let's go out to eat,
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let's do something. Let's go get coffee.
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Cool. And they're like,
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oh, what? Oh my God.
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Oh my God. They're so shook.
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I mean, some don't some feel a little masculin but you
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you know, they want someone who's like in their masculinity like
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good and they also want a lady who's independent.
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it's 2024. Most definitely.
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I'm not going to be a meek little girl.
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You got to show your interests,
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showing your interests. But also like,
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let them spoil you too.
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Sure you're interested but there's a balance for sure.
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There's a balance. Do you like Latino guys?
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I do. I dated one but he was a little machista
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The little guys. Don't do that,
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you know, I was out with this guy and he was
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real funny. He was a Gemini,
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he was real outgoing,
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you know, really cool guy.
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However, he was testy,
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like, he was really testing me the entire testing my boundaries
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right? He was like very much like I want to
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be funny and maybe there was this way of flirting but it
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came out very douche like I don't like that be a gentleman
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Like what are you doing?
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I'm a lady that definitely.
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So we're drinking how cute little amato sour had a cherry in
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there and he was like,
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you gonna eat that cherry and I go Yeah.
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I, I eat everything.
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And he asked me again and I said yes,
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He takes his two cute little fingers shoves it in my drink
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Gets the cherry eats it and looks at me with a
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am am I being bamboozled right now?
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You just ate my cherry?
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I just said no twice.
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I just really wanted it and I go,
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I don't give up and the entire night was like that.
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And mind you, I was right next to my apartment so
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I wish I had the strength to just get up and you
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were like, contemplating leaving.
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when you're so shook,
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you believe I was perplexed me.
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Like I was frozen in time.
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Like, what do you mean to say?
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My cherry on my favorite food on my shirt?
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sometimes they have this way of like flirting and it
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it backfires like no treat me like a princess.
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I'm a pretty princess and it goes a really long way to
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be a gentleman and being nice and yeah,
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joke around like obviously you're a funny girl.
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You gonna take a lot to laugh because I'm probably fine than
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I think that's the important part and I sincerely hope that when
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you go on dates you are strong on those boundaries and you're
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like, no, you do something wrong.
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I'm getting up right now because there's a hard time for that
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girl. I don't one more thing though I wanna ask to
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about I know it's not on the thing but I have
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to ask sex appeal because I remember when,
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when I was looking at your Instagram,
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this girl has sex appeal and I know that like,
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I don't know, I don't have that.
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I have a hard time that you think so you have eyes
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you got a little low body on you.
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Like, what do you mean?
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But like the way that you think the caring yourself like that
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you know, it's like you said,
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don't say you don't have it because once you say you don't
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have something you're not going to have it.
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This is true. So it's more about getting up and being
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like today I'm going to feel sexy and how do I feel
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sexy and just put on things that make you feel that way
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Like I love accessorizing.
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You know, whatever if it's makeup or makeup free,
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some girls feel really sexy in their natural bodies and you know
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no makeup. That's it.
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And like no one can tell you what isn't sexy because if
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absolutely. It's all in there.
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It's in there, it's in there,
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it's in there. It's going to come out.
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you're going to come out here.
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Right? And where can people find you on social media?
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My Instagram is at Javiera.
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Yes. My name is Javiera.
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A lot of people are shook.
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I don't know why I love that.
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I always hear Javier but not Javiera.
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This is great. That's why in Chile.
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I'm from Chile. Chi Chile.
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It's the only country that has Javi as like their most popular
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name, which I think is kind of hilarious.
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It's cool. Instagram and then Tik Tok,
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even though it's gonna be shut down,
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girl, let's hope not.
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underscore Javiera with two Ts and three A's.
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