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Tips for a Long Distance Relationship

Laura
Sometimes words are just not enough.
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Hey guys, my name is Laura.
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And today I will be talking about long distance relationships
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as some of you guys know I'm in a long distance relationship
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and if y'all didn't know now, you know, some pros and cons of
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being in a long distance relationship, pro you got space.
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I love having my space.
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I get to focus on my career.
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I get to go out with my friends.
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He gets to travel, he gets to hang out with his friends.
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Everyone's happy.
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Con you miss that person, you miss them a lot.
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If you're having a shitty day, you really wish that person
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was there to give you a hug to give you a just to be like, hey,
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gotta be OK.
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A big pro is how much more I appreciate him whenever we're apart
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You know, you miss him so much and then when you see each other
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you're like, damn, you are so good to me.
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Yes, I appreciate you.
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It's great.
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Something that I do miss a lot is sleeping with him.
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I do miss that feeling of safety when he's holding me.
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I miss that a lot, but you do get the bet to yourself.
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It's always a plus y'all know that a very big con is not being
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able to have sex y'all.
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I'm horny as hell.
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And you know, we try sex thing, but sometimes the words are
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just not enough.
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Sometimes you just need to, you know, these are some things
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that I consider extremely important.
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If you're going to do long distance relationship, they are
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loud as tips.
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If you will try to communicate as much as you can.
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And for everyone, it's different.
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Luckily for me and we, we have an advantage.
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We're in the same country.
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Some people are in completely different countries and the
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connection is a lot different.
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The calling cards are more annoying.
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Listening is very important.
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Not a good listener.
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I'm sorry, babe, I still think I'm a little deaf even on the
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phone when we're talking.
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I know that he feels sometimes frustrated cause I'm like,
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hello.
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Hello.
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Hello?
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Hi.
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Hello.
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What?
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No.
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What arguments are tricky because you have to pick and choose
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your battles.
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Sometimes you're just cranky and you start taking it out on
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the other person.
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So just be aware if you're cranky and just be like, hey, let's
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you know, let's talk later.
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One of the most important ones is trust.
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When you're in a long distance relationship, you have to really
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trust that your partner is not being ratchet wherever they
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are and your partner has to really trust that you're not being
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ratchet wherever you are, are you guys in long distance relationships
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Have you ever been in one?
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Do you want to be in one?
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I mean, who wants to be in a long distance relationship?
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I'm gonna facetime him.
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He's not?
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Oh, hey, can I use your face?
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Long distance?
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Say hi, babe.
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Hello.
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What are you eating a scramble?
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What's your scramble about?