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So many times that my friends weren't there for me.
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I said, you know what, I have to step up to the plate.
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I have to beat my fears.
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I have to become somebody.
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I gotta be stronger for myself.
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God put me here to be a strong person and to take care of myself
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respect myself and love myself.
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Currently, I'm an officer for the Sheriff's Department.
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You can say I take care of about approximately, well, on different
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It varies but usually 300 inmates just, you know, with two
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other deputies and myself with almost 300 inmates, male inmates
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I take it, these aren't the Bernie Madoff type of my, with some
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Sometimes, sometimes because mostly the inmates that I take
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care of or you know, that we watch.
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It's usually, you know, your, what, what do you wanna call
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Uh, gosh, DUIs people that, you know, violate parole, domestic
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violence and drug addicts, drug addicts that are ordered
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by court, you know, to serve their time in jail.
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But mainly that's it because the facility where I work at,
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it's a level one through seven and, you know, one being the
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lowest, like a parking tickets or warrants, pedophiles in
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Oh, yeah, we have pedophiles, we have child molesters, Gangsters
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Of course, we have a little bit of everything, a little identity
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theft, um, which we call it criminals.
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It just a little bit of everything.
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It's a totally different world.
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But I love, I love what I do.
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I think that I love my job because I feel so respected among
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my coworkers, my partners and the inmates.
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I treat them fair and I feel so comfortable just I know that
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because I've been, I've been left alone mostly all eight hours
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I've been left alone with 300 of these inmates and I have to
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walk once an hour to make sure they're all alive and nobody's
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beaten up or nobody's missing an arm or whatever, you know
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And I can, I am, I feel so sure of myself that I can go inside that
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Barrack because each Barrick holds about 100 inmates that
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I can go inside and I can just walk by myself, walk by myself
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all the way to the end of the Barrack to check every single one
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of them and come right back alive.
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I know I know that they will not do anything to me.
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I feel, I think as women, we have an extra instinct and we know
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that, you know, when something's gonna go wrong.
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Of course, if you feel it, if I sense it, I won't go.
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But I thank God I've never had that feeling never because I
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treat them all fair because like, like I, I forgot there was
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an officer another officer that told me, you know what I know
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that because sometimes among our partners, we, we tend to
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have problems because some of them are really, really bad
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They treat them like animals, they degrade them.
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And some of us are like, you know, they call us softies.
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You know, they, we, we give them too much, we help them too much
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But there was an officer that told me once that he said, you
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I treat him fair because I don't know if somewhere around this
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world, you know, somewhere around the world I have a cousin
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or I might have an uncle.
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I might have a grandpa, a father that's in jail also.
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And I wouldn't want somebody to treat him like those people
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treat them, you know, and that kind of like, wow, it stuck with
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me, it stuck with me and it stuck with me all, all this time.
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And that's why I know that these people will not do anything
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to me because I always always treat them fair when I get really
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They know I'm that they know how my my facial expressions change
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my tone of voice change and my posture changes and they know
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when I'm talking business, it's business.
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When you tick me off.
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Don't, don't talk to me because you're not gonna get absolutely
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So just go back mo most, most of all, I kind of feel like a counselor
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sometimes because I talk to these guys.
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You know, I feel like I feel like telling them, you know, I think
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I had a worse childhood than you.
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I think I had less things in you.
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Sometimes I didn't even have food to eat and you're over here
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telling me that you're using drugs, you're committing all
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these crimes because your parents separated.
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Like, come on, bro, like why, you know, God put us on this earth
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to, to, you know, to create our own destinies, I believe, you
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know, it's up to you what you wanna do with your life.
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That's how you're gonna live and that's the example you're
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gonna, you know, leave for everybody else to see if you wanna
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live your life like a criminal, then you're always gonna be
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down here, you know, treated like a criminal, treated like
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less of a human being, you know.
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But if you give respect hard, work hard, you're gonna get somewhere
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you know, and I, I try to talk to him.
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I wish I could open up to them and tell him what I went through
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you know, I mean, since I was a little kid, you know, but I don't
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know most of these criminals they, it comes from their ancestors
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They have cousins, grand grandpas, uncles, brothers, fathers
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that have lived in prison all of their life.
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So they know that's their world.
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They grew, they grew up around the, you know, talking about
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prison, talking about deputies, talking about officers
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Oh yeah, I'm gonna shoot that deputy.
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I'm gonna shoot this, I'm gonna shoot that.
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I'm gonna kill this fool.
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I'm gonna kill that fool.
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It's so normal to them.
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It's like they can do that every day if they want to drive by
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It's like so normal to them.
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It's just their, their, their mentality so much different
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And that's why I wanna raise my daughter differently from
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my mom, from these criminals.
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I learned from absolutely everybody.
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You know, because they're here to teach me a lesson too, to
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teach me that I shouldn't give my daughter absolutely everything
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You know, because I take care of a, um, well, he's one of the
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inmates in my facility.
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He has a very famous mom, very, very famous.
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And, you know, he, you know, the way he is, he's very cocky.
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He thinks he can get absolutely everything.
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It's like, you know what, I don't want to give my daughter absolutely
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everything because she might end up like this, you know, like
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a brat, just a love, a brat and it bugs me.
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So, you know, I wanna, I think that nowadays you gotta teach
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your kids with actions because words are just in and out.
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You know, I lived it with my little sister.
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Uh, I would talk to her but she still went and did her own thing
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She got pregnant at 17 and blah, blah, blah, you know, just
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like all my other sisters.
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So I think that with visions you gotta see it to believe it aids
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You know, I, I worked at a nursing home prior to being in a job
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I was totally the opposite.
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I'm telling you, I gave all I could.
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I always felt like I had to take care of everything.
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I felt like I had to be everywhere to help everybody that I could
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You know, I did, I did um, CN a work for five years, taking care
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But, um, yeah, you learned, I learned a lot.
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I learned to value my life.
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I learned that I don't have to be rich as long as I'm alive and
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I'm healthy and I'm able to talk, walk, eat and see what else
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The simple things in life are the best.
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You gotta think that way.
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You gotta laugh, you gotta think positive and most of all have
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And that's, that's, that's why I think I'm where I'm at because
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I feel really comfortable.
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I know that if I quit this job and I do something else, you know
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go for RN and I'll be a nurse.
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I know I can do it and I can do it because I feel I, I mold, you know
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to where I wanna go and what I wanna do, you could give advice
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to yourself at the age of five.
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When you first came home.
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Are you gonna make me cry and go back and talk to that little
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girl who came over and saw some terrific things.
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Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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Um What I would say to a little five year old that, you know,
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came here for the first time.
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I would tell her that everything would be ok um to have faith
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because God is fair with absolutely everybody.
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He gives us all, you know, our five senses and that's more than
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we can ask for and we make our own destiny and you know, ask for
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No, like God says, are you that thing that, you know, like it's
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a, you can make your life to be a beautiful life.
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So just have faith and be patient.
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Be very patient and humble.
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They'll get you to places to very high places.
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