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Welcome back to girl.
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Let me tell you, I'm Jessica Flores.
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I'm Yvonne Rojas and Gloria isn't here with us right now.
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She is in New York killing.
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She's being a star comedian out there doing shows being absolutely
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She's double booked, but I'm so excited to bring on my home
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She's an incredible actress.
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She has this crazy bubbly personality.
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Thank you guys so much for having me.
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I'm so excited to be here and join y'all.
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I've been like, oh, I wanna do this.
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Our first kind of like guest co-host.
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So we're, this is a big deal.
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I'm popping y'all cherry.
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And I want everyone else to know, like, tell us that you've
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been acting since you were five years old.
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Can you tell us about?
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Well, technically other people like are actual babies.
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You know what I mean?
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And they don't know they're acting but you knew it well.
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No, I, she started acting at five years old in acting class
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I literally couldn't read.
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So my mom had to like, tell me the line and that's how I would
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Mom put you put you on.
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Well, so I always say I came out the womb ready to perform and
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like, I was always being crazy and like singing Selena and
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Uh and then a couple of people, like growing up would tell my
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mom, like, get her in the business, get her in the business
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But finally, one day I was in Vegas and I decided to fake pass
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out in the middle of the casino.
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So I literally, I'm five years old and I fall and then I'm like
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we just for fun, for fun.
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And my mom was the only one that knew it was a joke.
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And like all my family was like, oh my God, what's God?
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Uh they started calling security.
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So my mom's like kicking me and she's like trusty get up, they're
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calling security, get up, get up.
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So then I was like, oh, you were committed?
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And like I played it off.
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So then my mom was like, all right, we need to look into this
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shit and like back then she just called like channel seven
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or channel five and somebody just gave her the number for an
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And so my mom called the agency and they're like, all right
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take some acting classes and get some head shots done and
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So we did went back and they just repped me and then at six, you
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got your first feature film feature film.
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So, like I did a commercial at five.
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and then at six, I booked the lead of an indie film to a clip of
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I can change too much.
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I look exactly the same.
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I was like, I take it back because it was an indie.
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So there's no sag after strong because it's allowed.
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But, um, but yeah, so I went into it, like, my mom went into it
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thinking it was gonna be a hobby.
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And then when we were, like, rehearsing for the film, she was
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like, oh, this is gonna be your career, like, wow.
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And I've never looked back like I've been able to do it for 25
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Have a beautiful career for it.
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Um, and thankful to work with amazing people, meet amazing
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So I'm like, 00, my God.
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Yeah, girl, that's a long time in, in the whole show.
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You're, you're an expert.
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After 10 years, you're, you're double edged.
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I know they say it takes 15 years to create an overnight success
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And so I like 15 years.
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I was like, where is it?
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I mean, and for you to stay in it for this long, I mean, you, you're
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And that's the thing.
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It's not, it's this or nothing.
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It's not work when you love what you do.
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So, like, I crave, like, it's funny because my showrunner
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Tanya told me to stop saying this.
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But like I used to say, like, I, especially during the pandemic
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I would tell her like, I feel like I'm a crack addict and like
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I need a hit, you know, and she's like, um, Chelsea, why don't
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you just say it feeds your soul instead of saying it's a drug
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like that is a little healthier.
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But like, that's honestly what I feel like even right now being
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here with you guys and on a set, I'm just like, uh you know, and
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I'm like you, I love it.
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Well, we're really excited to be here.
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I know you have a lot to say you're really opinionated and I'm
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really actually excited to get into our first segment which
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is what's on your feet?
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Are you ready, girl?
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Oh, yeah, all the feeds, what's going on?
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So this is something that we keep seeing on our feed right now
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Megan the stallion released her single cobra under her label
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Hot Girl Productions.
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We all know Megan the stallion.
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She's been through it.
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She's had a rough, I wanna say like past what, two years now
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since the whole incident with Tory Lanez and stuff like that
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Yeah, but oh my gosh, that, that whole thing still blows my
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So what do you guys think about her single cobra?
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Have you guys heard it?
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I actually have, I watched the music video.
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I don't like the music video, I didn't get like I get that there
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was supposed to be a story but then there wasn't a story but
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like, I think it's very beautiful to see a powerful bad bitch
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like her get so vulnerable with the lyrics because like, again
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so much songs right now are like pussy popping s a thing like
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a, like a, you know what I mean?
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But like if for that was like, I was very surprised by it that
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it felt like, like a real song.
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Like, I, I listen to like old stuff.
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Like, I have my stuff.
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I listen to two thousands and stuff.
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Like I listen to Ja Rule like, where, like always on time, you
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So like, I don't listen to a lot of the now music.
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So I was really impressed by how genuine and like open.
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She was like Taylor Swift.
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I didn't listen too much to the lyrics for whatever reason
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why I'd watched the music video was the first time I heard it
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and I only kind of paid attention to the visual which I didn't
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But I, I think I need to go back and actually listen to the lyrics
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I mean, if you listen to it, but I mean, what I admire is that
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she has her own production company called Hog Grow Productions
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and she's funding her own music, which is like, not many women
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get to do it, especially in this industry, you know what I mean
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And she's gonna make it and she's po off.
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So I it's like that she's, you know, a Trailblazer in the music
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business because it's not easy.
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She literally talks about depression and like suicidal thoughts
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and she's like, no, no, no.
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And I'm like, yeah, bitch say it, you know, like, so I respect
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that but um I need to go back and listen for sure.
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The other thing that's on your feed, you've probably seen
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The Golden Bachelor.
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I have, I have, I have thank you.
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You can find love again and live.
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Honestly, this show brings me so much happiness.
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Sometimes you feel like at a certain age like there's no, there's
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nothing but how wholesome is it?
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You guys don't understand it was wholesome until the last
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episode when he has three girls left three women who are so
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in love with him because they haven't had a love since their
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husband either passed away.
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No, all three of them have passed away.
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So they haven't felt love or been in love and they are acting
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like they were 16 year old women and he has said I love you.
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I'm in love with you to each one of them, to their eyes.
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Can you be in love with three women at the same time?
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Like is he playing them because he seems like the sweetest
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I don't mean that my thing is, it's hard.
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I don't really watch a lot of reality TV.
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I think The Golden Bachelor is beautiful because it's again
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showing people you can, you can have another love, you can
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have another life and you know what I mean?
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And so that I really admire.
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But personally I don't like, I watch Jersey Shore.
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That's what I watch because it connected to one from before
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You know what I mean?
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Like, so I don't know much about it.
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I'm not in the bachelor world, but now I want to watch it.
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It's so, it's so wholesome because you're like a lot of these
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It's just very, sometimes a lot of the people there are there
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for the wrong reasons.
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They want the exposure.
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ABC and D these are genuine people that have gone through maybe
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deaths or whatever you're looking for love.
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And I don't think we even talk about that enough is like, you've
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been with someone for so long and maybe there's like a passing
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away or what, you know, you've been lonely for so long, so many
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years, we don't really talk about what older, older men and
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women go through when they're maybe alone and they're going
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And it's just so, it is true and it actually makes me like, emotion
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check it out, check it out if you have a chance.
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You know, I'm like, I, I need to watch it the way you guys are
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I'm like, ok, we haven't seen it before.
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It's actually different.
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It's not like a bunch of young hot single people.
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Mind you, they being stupid being too, like, over sexual.
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It's just like they're genuine.
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You know, I'm watching that reality show.
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World's toughest test, like the special forces thing.
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And one of the guys on it is like Tyler Cameron that used to be
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on the Bachelor or Bachelorette.
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And I'm like, I don't like that sort of thing, but I'm, like
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watching him through this show.
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I'm like, actually I'm interested in that guy who is he as a
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Because I thought, oh, you're a bachelor, you're that guy
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You know what I mean?
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And so I'm like, oh, I like you a little bit.
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Like, you seem kind of cool.
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Like, I wanna be your friend.
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He's, like, helping them out and being the leader and I'm,
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But, like, I just thought he was a bachelor or, like, a part
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of the Bachelor automatically make those assumptions.
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Like, you're on the Bachelor, you kind of already know what
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you're gonna get a little bit.
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See them in a different light for sure.
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Um, and I love that.
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I don't know, to a certain extent it does feel like a power couple
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is gonna, like, come out of it and I know that's what we kinda
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wanted to talk a little bit about on this episode was Power
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couples coming together with like your equal.
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You come whole, you come whole.
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I think that in my opinion is what a power couple is.
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It's like you're great alone.
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You are set alone, you're incredible alone and you come together
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and it just kind of like blends in together 100% 100%.
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Like honestly, OK, if you've watched anything or NFL at all
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you understand that Taylor Swift has taken over the world
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I mean, like I feel like you cannot talk about power couples
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without talking about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey.
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Like that is the it thing right now like it's the it thing like
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how much, how much more of a fan base got brought to the NFL.
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I'm sure the NFL stoked about this, right?
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They have the shit out of it because we, we're gonna talk about
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this in the hot take.
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We're gonna get deeper in this so we'll be back.
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Speaking of love hot take, Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift
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are the it power couple right now, right?
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First off, it's Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey are the it did
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I give her that respect, you know, put some respect on her name
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I feel like she definitely owns this situation even though
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like they're at his games, his stuff like she is the main.
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Well, she's the reason why people are talking about it because
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if it was Travis and a, you know, maybe someone, I mean, it's
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Anything she does is gonna bring attention.
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It's Taylor Yo, they literally the NFL completely went from
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sports to only talking about Taylor Swift showing her on every
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everything being like she took it over and because she's Taylor
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Are they a definition of a power couple that we got the Obama
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Look, they're a power couple.
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I mean, I think Hove and B are a power couple.
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But like for me, I think the beautiful thing about Travis and
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Taylor, like, look, I'm a big sports fan so I knew I was at the
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Super Bowl when the Niners lost to the fucking Chiefs was there
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You know what I mean?
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Like, so I don't like him because of that, but I think he's an
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amazing player but like he is who he is.
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He has his own name, his own title.
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Like he's a Super bowl champion.
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You know what I mean?
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He's already a power is Taylor motherfucking Swift.
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You know what I mean?
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Like coming to this, like they don't need each other.
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They want each other.
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That's what I love the most.
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That's what a power couple is that you don't need that person
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You don't, it's like we, we, we choose to each other and we wanna
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be with each other and to be honest, she makes hella more money
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And that shouldn't be a problem.
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Nobody should talk about it.
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Like, people have literally said, like people have said,
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like, oh, like she's a billionaire and he's barely making
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Like, and it's like, who cares?
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But it's like, how many, how many more men make more money than
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I don't think many men.
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I'm like, not a lot.
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I love Taylor Swift.
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So I know some stuff and like apparently one of the big, well
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I just follow a lot of things.
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I like what I'm saying.
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Like one of the biggest things that she said in interviews
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is like, guys never wooed her.
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They didn't do beautiful things for her and special things
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So the fact that he like rented out an entire restaurant to
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have a party and take her out, like that's something special
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that she hasn't really had before.
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So I'm like, I am here for Travis k showing her what to do.
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I would take Taylor on a date and woo her and like open the door
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for her because they're intimidated.
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Like who I think it's intimidation.
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I don't know how to explain it.
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But like he seems like he wants to show a woman, I'm the man,
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you know what I mean?
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Like, and she is so used to being the man that I don't think men
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are used to being able to be a man with no one can, like, come
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like they intimidated, they're intimidated by, well, it
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takes a certain type of man to date somebody that stature with
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so many eyeballs on you with so much success.
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Like, that's not an easy thing to do.
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You know, she's already in her masculine, so much.
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She makes her money.
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She's dealing with the industry she's dealing with, she's
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so much in the, the masculine part of her energy to be that,
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to take, she wants that masculine so she could let go and be
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That's the thing with me.
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But with my man, I'm like they told me and then like, when I'm
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out in the world, I'm like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah
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You know what I mean?
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Like I know exactly what you mean.
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So I think she needed somebody so that she could be that, you
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know, with, you know, and I mean, we'll see if she is that man
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I was gonna say, we don't know.
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I will tell, I'm so curious to know what it's actually like
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without all the cameras and without the antics and I wonder
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what the real vibes are, but people are saying that they've
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like, flown and seen each other, like they have been doing
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that already without like all the cameras and stuff.
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What are your expectations in a relationship?
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We'll be answering that and many more questions with our special
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guest, Jessica Marie Garcia.
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Should married couples still have their own bank accounts
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I do, I do we have our own bank account or no?
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No, we don't have any shared bank accounts.
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I don't think it's fair to expect a man to pay for everything
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I will say except for the first date so much more attractive
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when there's like I got it.
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Of course it's like super attractive.
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All right, I'm so excited to bring out our next guest, Jess
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You call for an angel.
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The whole star here.
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OK, let's do your intro because you have done so many incredible
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things, Jessica, you are a writer, a producer as soon to be
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director and you hit the San Diego Latino Film Festival with
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illegally blonde brown brown illegally re I knew that one
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that you made that and um so you're hoping to maybe potentially
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put it into, make it into a future?
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Well, congratulations girl, it's gonna happen.
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Thank you for having me.
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This is so dope like just even taking in that four Latinas are
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sitting at a table together.
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Oh, I know, I feel like so like it's so real.
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Tell me a little bit about this project illegally Brown.
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This is something that you again like you maybe wanna make
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it or you do wanna make it into a Yes.
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Um So basically it is the story about two sisters.
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You know, they get taken from their, from L A and they get displaced
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to Mexico because they're not citizens, but they're also
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Um And it's a long story short.
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It's a love story for these sisters and it's also an adventure
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comedy where these girls get involved with terrorists, get
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involved with the FBI.
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It's a lot, but it's also something I think that we don't see
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a lot of us get the opportunity to do.
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So I'm really excited to possibly be a part of that but, and
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not only as a performer but as a producer.
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So it's pretty sick and you have a Latina director.
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So it's like, let's do it, let's make it happen.
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And then on top of all of this, you're a new mom.
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How do you have, how, how did this happen, how it happened?
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But I wanna know, ok, in your life, you do two people love each
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Uh How do I balance?
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I mean, I mean, how is your life changed?
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Oh, my God, everything has changed, everything has changed
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My, I feel like I was the grinch and now my heart has grown.
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Um It's, it's so it's the most incredible job that I will ever
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And it's also the hardest, like every single day is a new adventure
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and it's like, it's wild to just see all the things that she's
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doing every day, like, seeing the person she's becoming,
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she's, uh, 21 months.
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I'm one of those people that, like, oh, my God, she's 100%.
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I became that person.
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But it's literally because like a one year old, like a 12 month
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old and a 20 month old are so different.
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So, she's almost two, but she's not yet two.
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So, it's something that only moms will understand why you
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say it like that in a way.
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Do you feel like your whole life view has completely shifted
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You're, you're looking at life now through, like, did you
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And, and obviously you're married and obviously you're married
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And so how, how did you know that he was the one?
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Um, he reminds me why he's the one every single day.
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But it's, but it's also that he's the one for me in every stage
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And we've been able, you know what I mean?
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I think that's what's so important because we've been together
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for 14 years in January.
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Like we've been married for five, but we've been together
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Like we, um, it's so funny because we met at a mutual friend's
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birthday party but, like, I was a waitress at Outback, he was
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in between catering jobs.
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Like we both, like, he's, um, on the production side.
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Like he's a set dresser but not when we met, like, none of, like
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we had nothing like we were rubbing two sticks together trying
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to, like, you know what I mean?
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So, we've really seen each other through so much that, I mean
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that's family to me regardless is dope.
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He's like, is Chelsea gonna be there like that?
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And how do you guys keep it fresh?
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How do you keep it going?
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Well, you have a baby now.
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So it's like, yeah, so any moment you can, that's, that's for
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But um but also how, how is your relationship with him changed
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now that there's a child?
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Oh I'm, I'm seeing him as a father and that tells me so much about
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a man with how he is as a father.
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I have a horrible dysfunctional relationship with mine.
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So um I feel like I would have chosen that 10 times over to be
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able to say that my husband is my child's father because she
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is, he is everything I could have wanted as a dad for myself
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you know, and it's just beautiful.
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I I was gonna make a dirty joke, your daddy now, I can't do that
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I say the worst thing is about to cry.
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Look, we were talking, we were talking about that.
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Um actually like off camera but it's true like, and we had mentioned
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this before but you choose who your daughter's father is going
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to be and like, man, look, look at who you chose.
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It's somebody that's actually going to be present and actually
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going to be like a good force in your child's life.
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So I know I'm so lucky.
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I thank God every day for that.
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But I'm also like, damn, I earned that because my dad sucks
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You deserve it, you deserve it.
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But I think you can also, you know, choose that same path for
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yourself or you can learn to like, you know what I mean?
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It's not, it's not an easy decision because I think I could
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have gone down a path of being with somebody who would have
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been that way matched.
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You know what I mean?
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Like it because they say like you end up attracting somebody
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that, you know, so like people, they always say that guys marry
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their mothers or like women, marry their fathers in a sense
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what I will say to also attribute that and people ask me all
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They're like, oh, how do I find like their like, Adam, my husband's
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Like how do I find my Adam when I first started dating him?
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Every single one of my friends was like, what the hell are you
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He's got no job, he's got no car.
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Like what are you doing?
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I was like, neither do I what I saw potential in him.
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He was a hard worker.
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No, I love being around him.
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We literally had a 12 hour phone conversation about just like
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And he was on minutes too at the time.
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It was a long time ago.
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You know what I mean?
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He spent that money but that, to me meant so much more because
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I had already dated people with not a lot of money but something
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And those were horrible.
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So it was like, why am I gonna keep doing the same thing?
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Expecting a different result?
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You know, and then we've been able to grow with each other and
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I know he's not, you know, he knows me good, bad.
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And he has seen the worst of me.
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He knows you like inside and out.
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And that's that thing with those long term relationship.
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It is like real intimacy.
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It's like a love that you can't even, it's not, it's not touchable
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Like every little thing can like melt off because we're talking
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about that and independence, it's gonna lead us right into
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our next conversation of Callas no more what we're asking
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and answering some complicated questions.
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So we will get into that right now.
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I'm gonna, I'm gonna get the first one but bam.
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Does how much your partner make matter to you in a relationship
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Should men be the provider?
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So I'm gonna go to married women.
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Yeah, le let's hear from you first.
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Well, um you know, it's a little bit of an unfair question for
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me because, um, my husband and I, our passions are different
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and his are, you know, set, um, set design, um, and set dressing
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and props and things like that.
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That's never gonna make as much money as I can make as an actor
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So it's really unfair to say, oh, sorry, my dreams are just
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more lucrative so we can't be together.
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That's like, you know what I mean?
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That's just a weird, yeah.
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And again, it even goes into what we were talking about Taylor
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Swift and Travis Kelsey earlier, like, just because she makes
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more money than him, it shouldn't matter if he's providing
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And like, yeah, I could take you out to date night.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, you know, my boyfriend and I were both people in the business
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I just got a day job.
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He has been successful without having a day job for years and
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he's fine with that, but he's not asking for money.
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I'm not asking him for money, but he buy my groceries.
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I love, you know what I mean?
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Because I'm struggling right now.
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You know, I mean, I think it depends on, like, your status in
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Like, if you're married I have a boyfriend, like his money
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My money is money, money.
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If you go to dinner or I, I, I'll offer and he'll say no or like
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I'll get us our coffees and stuff.
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Like it's just, I'm not there yet.
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That's what I was saying.
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Like, you know, it's up to you what works for you and then also
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what chapter you are in your life with that person.
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I'm gonna take it from the standpoint of where I am dating now
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which I'm dating again.
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Like I know what I want.
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I want like that long term longevity.
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I want a father for my future kids.
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I'm gonna of course, look to see if this is somebody stable
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at least works hard.
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I don't care if you make less than me.
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But are you a hard worker or are you just somebody that wants
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Are you somebody that I know I can depend on?
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This is like a teammate that you're looking at, you're dating
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them to know that they can actually be there.
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You could be there for them.
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So, yeah, I, I'm looking at how much they're making.
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I don't need to be this like crazy millionaire.
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But can you provide like a safe, steady home and you know, be
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somebody that I can depend on and you know, so I'm not going
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to say no, I don't care, you know.
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No, I'm, I'm looking at those things and I hope he's looking
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What kind of qualities do I have as a woman, you have to look
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at those qualities when your friends were telling you like
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he doesn't have this, he doesn't have that, he doesn't have
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And it's look at the man that he's become and who, who he is and
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like, you fell in love with him at his core and like all these
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things can come after the fact.
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But like the fact that again, when you think about specific
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type of women that are like, he needs to make six figures, he
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needs to make, to make that.
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Tell me, have you seen or have you seen those videos of like
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people going around interviewing women and saying how much
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is your future man have to make?
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And they're like no less than $500,000.
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There's women like that out there but also that's such a small
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percentage of men in your, if that's your end all be all.
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Are you even looking at how they were raised?
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There's so much more that goes into relationship.
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It's extremely important.
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Don't get me wrong that stability.
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But are you, why is it so cut and dry?
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Like they need to make 700,000?
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Like I think when you love somebody to work with them, you work
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together on a team in general that you together?
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I think a lot of that is performative.
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You know, it's just, you know what I mean?
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Like I just feel like that's like such a persona that you put
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on for people to think that you have some kind of status like
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as someone, a lot of people think I'm like, you know, that have
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all this money or whatever.
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It's just never something I ever want to, to anybody.
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Like, it's so gross.
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You're blinged out with all your jewelry and your ring.
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You blinging you bling.
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I found this on Instagram.
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I will tag them for you.
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I, I know it's not like, like that but because you live a glamorous
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life without it being expensive, it's a persona I'm giving
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I'm going back to this.
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Goes into this question.
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Married couples still have their own bank accounts.
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I do, I do we have our own bank accounts or?
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No, we don't have any shared bank accounts.
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So how do you decide who pays for what you just talked about
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And you guys have transparency?
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Oh, you guys are making or do you guys not even talk?
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No, no, we always talk.
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Well, and I think that's where it gets a little messy because
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it's like even if you don't share a bank account, you could
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still be transparent about.
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You got that like, you know what I mean?
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I haven't been in that relationship where I have to share a
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bank account with someone.
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If I, you know, my mom is on my bank account.
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I still have a bank account but make sure you know, she's got
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Oh my God, I'm so am I, but I think in this day relatable, I love
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No, I've had a, no, I've literally had a debit card since I was
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like young, like probably like seven years old or something
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because my mom just wanted me because I was making money as
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Like, oh look, see you're providing you're putting in so like
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I wanna show you so like Bank of America is like, you been with
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us for 28 years and I'm like, I'm like, you know what I mean?
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Like I would have been two but it's because my mom's been with
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the company for so long.
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You know, I, I don't feel like it has so much to do with how you're
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Like if a dad or you're raised in your family and it's like you
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It's like, son, if you're gonna ask a girl out, you better have
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enough money to give her to, to make sure she hasn't like if
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you're gonna ask a girl out to dinner and you're like, come
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over me and then he's like, let's put the bill.
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Yo, did you, why did you ask me to dinner if you're not inviting
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Did you guys see that?
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It was some video where like a woman ordered like three things
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Three dozen oysters and she ate it and like a guy had asked her
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out for drinks so then he left her to pay for the entire I know
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Ok, so what do you think?
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You left her, you left her, sir?
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Like, ok, if you don't wanna pay for that, then you could say
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oh I'm gonna pay for this part of the bill you could pay for
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No, we saw a tiktok where this guy asked her on a date and then
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when the bill comes, he's like, oh, we're doing half and half
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and she's like, oh my God, I'm so sorry.
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I, I thought this was a date.
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I didn't know we were gonna be friends.
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Here's my car, here's my car and then he's like, you know, like
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it's almost like if you're gonna ask a girl out, like at least
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have enough for the ice cream or something because it's like
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I don't know, maybe not.
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Maybe you think that permanently or is that just a first date
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But I think that's why I think it's so important the way your
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It's not about how you were raised.
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It's the social norms that we see because we are told that a
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man is supposed to provide, he has to pull out the chair and
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Now, a lot of guys don't do that anymore.
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My man does he still, you know.
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Um but I'm like I took my man on a trip to like desert Hot Springs
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I was like, babe, I've had a crazy month.
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I wanna go on this trip and I put money on it.
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He didn't pay like I paid for the hotel like he paid for certain
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meals while we were there.
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But then like recently he took me on a trip to Maui.
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You know what I mean?
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Like yo I was caught them fires.
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That shit was crazy.
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Um Yeah, yeah but like so again I do one trip, he does another
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we do things together like I don't think it's fair to expect
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a man to pay for everything.
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I don't think that's fair.
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I think that we could be even about it and if they wanna do it
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If I wanna do one day.
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But it's not fair to expect somebody I will say except for the
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first date, except for the first day like if you wanna, if you
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like I always put my, I always put out my wallet but it's that
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thing that makes it a little cuter like no, no, no.
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Yeah, of course that I offer but yeah it's that it's so much
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more attractive when there's like I got it.
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Of course it's like super attractive.
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That's what I look for.
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I don't know that type of vibe.
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Have there been any uncomfortable conversations between
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your husband with finances?
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And I think that also fluctuates with, like, like, what, like
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in an argument, I feel like I could use that as ammunition
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you know, and I've learned through the how wrong that is,
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but it's something that literally doesn't, it really doesn't
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It's just in those moments where I'm like, I need something
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It's a low blow, but it's something that I do.
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It's beautiful that you know, that I try to, I try to be because
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I don't think it's fair, especially because so often I, I I'm
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so vocal about how it doesn't because I think that at his core
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he's still going to have like, is this ok?
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Like, you know, but I also have to reassure him like how much
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he provides in other ways, which I think is priceless.
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You do make more than him.
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And let's be honest for a man, I'm not sure.
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I mean, I'm not a man but I would only assume maybe, I don't know
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maybe it could cause some sort of insecurity there.
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So I think, I think, but Adam is such a man and that's the thing
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that's not about that.
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It's just about being confident with yourself because if
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you are insecure as a man or as a woman, it's going to seep through
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in every way possible.
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But if a man is confident in himself, whether or not you make
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more than him is not going to make an issue.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, because he's confident with himself.
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Next question, how important is love in a relationship?
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And could you be with someone who you didn't really love?
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We're going to be answering that one when we get back, we're
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gonna be signing off of IG and tiktok.
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But make sure you guys tune in on me too dot TV will be back with
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It's not that I, I choose love every day.
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It's not like I wake up and I'm like madly in love with this person
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It's like you're really choosing to wake up and put in that
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We've gone through trying times.
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I think everybody can say in a relationship that they have
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But it's never been to the point where I could see a life without
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All right guys, we're back with Gla Dita no more with Jessica
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And we're gonna get back to this question.
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How important is love in a relationship?
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And could you be with someone who you didn't really love?
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And I think this is a cool parallel to our conversation as you
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guys know a lot of women date for clout money, whatever it might
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Could you guys, could you Jessica if you weren't married right
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Pretend you were single, be with someone without.
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Um, uh, it depends how needy I needed.
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Like, as far as like, am I or am I homeless if that were the case
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Yes, we would absolutely do that if I like needed.
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So you'd be using the person.
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But I feel like it's an ex, an exchange though, right?
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For women that want the, the guy with all this money and there's
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They're getting whatever she's providing.
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Well, well, either way it's gonna be an exchange, either way
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it's gonna be an exchange.
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You know what it is?
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Like, I don't think, well, what if you're in a relationship
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and you're, you haven't said I love you yet.
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You're not in love yet but you're in, like, you really like
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them and you've been together for months and it's not like
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I think that you can really like somebody and be in a relationship
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I think, and then I think that if it's gonna last a long time
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it'll turn into love and that's gonna make it last longer.
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But I think you can be in, like, I think a lot of people are in
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relationships and they're not in love, how many people break
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up with someone and they're like, oh, I love them.
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A lot of people, people, yeah.
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There, there's a degree of love in the relationship but it's
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not like enough to withstand this.
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Well, I think it's also, I was looking at it in a sense of like
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you are married to someone and you have a family with this
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person, like you to be a family.
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Or, like, again, I think a lot of people honestly settle nowadays
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You know what I mean?
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Like, and then there's the other side where they, like, give
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up because they don't wanna fight with anybody or deal with
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But like, I know people that you're not happy, you don't really
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love that but you just want someone there.
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I know a lot of, you know, back in the day, like, with their mindset
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it's like we're staying, we're sticking together, we're
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gonna be a family no matter what we're doing this for the kids
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And that's, that, that's an, that's an interesting point
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from the point of you're already married, you're no longer
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You don't really feel like you're in love with this person
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anymore, but you have kids.
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Is that a situation you guys would stay in and stick it out because
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you already have the family or is it like, I'm unhappy?
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I no longer love this person.
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What we, I could never, I say it's not good for exactly that
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you have, you not good for anybody.
32:42
The husband is not happy.
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We're not happy if my parents stay together.
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What if it wasn't toxic?
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What if it was just like I don't, but then you're missing out
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but then you're, I think your child would never want you to
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miss out on a side of you that you might even in a way rent them
32:56
for because you dedicated your life to a relationship that
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you didn't want because you gave that much.
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You're gonna, you, you get annoyed like my mom always gives
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You're gonna get annoyed by the way he leaves his towel on the
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floor or the way he leaves socks or his shirt or whatever, whatever
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But because you love him, it's OK.
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But once you start losing that love, like his fucking hiss
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again, his towel again.
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So it's like I couldn't live with that.
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I think you're, you're really good to ask this question because
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you've really been with someone for super long.
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Do you feel like you've always felt love?
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Because a lot of the times I hear people say that I've been with
33:30
someone, it's not that I, I choose love every day.
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It's not like I wake up and I'm like madly in love with this person
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It's like you're really choosing to make up and put in that
33:39
You know what happens if you just stop putting in the effort
33:42
You know what I mean?
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Um I, I mean, we've gone through trying times, I think everybody
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can say in a relationship that they have but it's never been
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to the point where I could see a life without him on purpose
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If that makes sense.
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Like, any time we got to like the worst argument where I'm like
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We're done in the back of my head.
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I'm like, no, it's not, it's bullshit.
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Like that's not, that's not happening.
34:04
Like it's, I, I've just never been so out of love that I didn't
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want to be or like, maybe I need a break or maybe I needed like
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I never, I haven't had that.
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But I think it's also because we prioritize in like our time
34:19
independently, like our independent time so that we're not
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just like, you know, just seeing each other all day, every
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day if that makes sense like this, like you guys are each other
34:32
but that, you know, he's a middle child right here.
34:36
But I also think it's the difference between the idea of a relationship
34:41
and the reality of it.
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And it's like people say, and I got this from, you know, a show
34:46
but like a woman said, like I'm not, um I don't love him all day
34:51
every day, but I love him every day.
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You know what I mean?
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And like everybody thinks that no, everything has to just
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And it's like, it doesn't work like that.
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I don't, I don't like him a lot of the time evolve.
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You can like, honey, stay ladies, ladies, we talk about today
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Have you ever been the dependent one in a relationship?
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I, I think it could be a lot of things.
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I think it could be a few.
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You could be emotionally dependent on somebody.
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Yeah, I could say, like, financially, I don't think I've ever
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been, I've never been, never, I don't think I've ever been
35:28
dependent on partner, but I've had partners that were dependent
35:31
on me for their happiness.
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And that was really crazy to me because it was like, if I wasn't
35:37
responding or if I wasn't there, if I wasn't showing up, they
35:41
Like it was like, I, I need to be with you also.
35:43
Uh, it was, it was a lot to take on because it just showed that
35:47
there was something that they were missing that had nothing
35:50
But like, my little void of, you know, love and it wasn't, was
35:53
what they thought was happiness, but in reality, they had
35:56
to work on that on their own.
35:57
And that's why we're not saying that like, you're, that the
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what I take from that is like, they're co dependent.
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I, I guess could have like, they're depending on another person
36:07
for their happiness and sometimes that's not very, like,
36:10
doesn't last very long.
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I think, I think I've been there but not to that extent.
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I think I've been at a point where I'm talking to a guy and like
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how they, and this was when I was like, a lot younger, a lot
36:20
I'm like, OK, they could either make or break my day.
36:22
Like, how is the conversation when you're younger?
36:24
Obviously when you get older, you recognize, ok, I can't,
36:26
all my happiness and focus can't be on this person.
36:29
But yeah, I think I, and then guys have also been dependent
36:31
on me to the point where it was like, really unhealthy, right
36:33
You know what I mean?
36:34
Where it's like if you break up with, I'm gonna be on some like
36:38
maybe, maybe hurt myself or things of that nature, like it's
36:40
gotten maybe to that point, which is scary.
36:42
I don't, you know, I think that's where like Jess said earlier
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like, prioritizing time for yourself.
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And it's like I've been in hard times where I call my man and
36:53
he is a very, I say he's from 19 twenties, like he would put his
36:56
phone down for five hours and like go skateboard or go surf
37:00
So like I got used to not hearing from him like at the beginning
37:04
and now he's like, on his phone more because he loves me.
37:06
Um, but uh there were times where like, I would call him like
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something happened at night and he puts his one in sleep mode
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I call, he didn't answer but I have my girls that I could call
37:15
So then I don't feel alone and at least I have someone that can
37:18
help me through that moment.
37:20
You know what I mean?
37:21
So, like, mind you, he'll tell me after like, oh my God, I'm
37:23
so sorry or like, what happened?
37:25
And I'm like, oh, no.
37:25
Well, like Jack got me through it or whatever, like she said
37:28
prioritizing your independence and having your own tribe
37:31
that it's not, you're only relying on your partner.
37:34
I, I, yeah, I agree with that for sure.
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It's not the only person, but I do want to be able to, but not
37:39
It's all about your camaraderie with your girls like this
37:42
Like literally, it's what it is.
37:44
You can sit here and exchange ideas and really bounce ideas
37:47
off each other, which is what I'm like saying a different point
37:49
of view and you guys hear it.
37:52
And be afraid to reach out to your home girls because they can
37:55
really give you some clarity for things that you're like beating
37:58
You know what I mean?
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I cannot thank you enough Jess for being at the table before
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we head over to the bar because we're gonna head over to the
38:08
bar for, to get a drink.
38:09
Where can everybody find you and keep tabs on you?
38:11
Um Please follow me on the Instagram.
38:14
She's a tiktok queen.
38:15
I'm a tiktok queen too.
38:17
But um at Jess underscore M underscore Garcia, there's a lot
38:22
Um And then on tiktok at Jess Marie with no E Garcia, that's
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We're gonna get that back for you.
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Thank you for being here.
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OK, let's actually high five.
38:42
Would you rather your heart light up any time you have a crush
38:47
on somebody or like you're attracted to somebody?
38:49
Like it could even be like your friend's dad or like your, your
38:52
bro, your boyfriend's brother or have your butt light up if
38:56
you have to go to the bathroom and like you could be like with
38:59
the president in the United States, you could be like on a date
39:03
and then it lights up like Redos Reindeer.
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All right, ladies, we are back and I'm excited to be with you
39:09
guys to make some fierce espresso martinis that are gonna
39:17
I, I've never, I've never made one but I, I could really use
39:19
one if it wakes us up.
39:20
Well, it's espresso.
39:22
So it's gonna, there's literally like coffee beans and coffee
39:24
It smells delicious.
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If you could smell this right now.
39:27
It's not, well, I actually don't even like coffee.
39:29
So I'm not that excited.
39:31
You're gonna, but I'm gonna do it because so I'm a bartender
39:34
in training right now at work.
39:35
So like I'm really excited to like, I'm like I have the power
39:39
Ok, so this shaker is a little different than like the ones
39:43
But technically, it's all about like the, the ups and downs
39:47
the rhythm like Colombian.
39:50
It has to hit from back to front, you know what I mean?
39:53
Um, so we are about to get into this.
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You tell me because you're the teacher and, oh my God, I'm redeeming
40:14
Let me honestly I think I don't have my hands too small for this
40:18
Yeah, it is hard with this one.
40:19
I don't even know where to start, back, back forth.
40:25
No, you got the face.
40:26
It's coming out of all angles.
40:28
But yeah, like the point that they talk about making a rhythm
40:31
making a rhythm, a rhythm.
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So we have the ingredients here.
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It's two ounces of vodka.
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Half an ounce of coffee liqueur.
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I don't know why I said that word liqueur, one ounce of espresso
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and then half an ounce of simple syrup.
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We got it right here.
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So it could be easy.
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We got ice already in the shaker.
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So I'm gonna do mine but buy them w look see, I'm like, I'm cute
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Hit it, hit it, hit it, hit it, hit it, get it, get it, get it.
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That rhythm, dance rhythm.
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How satisfying was that?
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So now we gotta top it off with a little bit of you.
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And I don't know if I could ever be a bartender.
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All right, let's turn.
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Now that we're all here and we're chilling.
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What are some things of this episode that stuck with you?
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Honestly, my top is I love relationship goals.
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So like, it's about finding the Travis to your tailor, like
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be a boss in yourself, find a man that's a bo a boss in himself
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and like, make that power couple because I think people always
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try to look outward to fulfill them and like they're 70 they're
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waiting for the other person to make them complete.
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And like, I think with that relationship, like they're both
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100 like that's, you know, that's what I think me and my man
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are, you know, so like, that's what I want everybody to do.
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So yeah, there's a lot of talk of like, you don't wanna depend
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too much on your man.
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But I would argue that if you're dating someone you can really
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rely on and you trust their heart, you trust their judgment
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Look at who they really are, look at how they are with other
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I think it's a beautiful thing when you can depend on your man
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to be honest, depend on him in every sense of every sense of
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the like, emotionally, even if you need it in that time financially
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These are tough times so don't be afraid to do that because
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I do hear a lot of talk online about, you can't depend on any
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man, every man's trash.
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You know, there's some great men out there.
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Just be aware of who you're dating, be aware of who they are
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We all have that experience is making shaking this drink right
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It's a little rhythm.
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So the only thing also it's hard with this but it's supposed
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to be angled like this like this.
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So when you're shaking it, but like with this one, it's hard
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because of you, we can't like grip it the same way.
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It's you girl now you gotta do nothing I think.
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Don't settle, don't settle.
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You don't have to settle.
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You can be happy in a relationship and, and like, you know,
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yourself, love yourself and then you won't accept anything
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And I think that love is real and you can be in a loving relationship
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and not settle for less.
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I really believe that.
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So if anybody's in a relationship that they're not happy with
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um it's time to re evaluate.
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Don't stay longer than you should.
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Now your turn, let's go.
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This is all so you have to hold the pressure on that.
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Don't be afraid to make a change.
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I'm not, this is not meant for me.
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I'm actually excited to try it.
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You haven't tried it?
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I was, oh, this is hard with these nails.
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It is really pretty.
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Well, cheers guys cheers.
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00, that's actually not bad.
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I'm like, at first it was a little, oh, well, we're gonna get
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Chelsea in the next episode.
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So, let's get to know you a little bit better.
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And what better way then would you rather you play?
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What would you rather be?
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But the thing is that whoever gets voted out needs to take a
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I'm down, you drinking.
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So I know there's no chance left for me.
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But all right, first question, would you rather have a one
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minute conversation with your past self or your future self
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And what would you say?
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It's same, same because then like it would like, bitch calm
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down like it's gonna happen and you now, I don't know it because
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I overthink, you know what I mean?
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Like you already went through it.
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The past is the past and made me who I am because I was a traumatic
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I've had trauma in my life.
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So I would go back to be like it's gonna be ok.
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That would be one thing.
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But right now because I've been healing, I'd rather go.
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There's so many moments like back in the day where I would just
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like hug myself and be like me to be All right.
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So, wait, what do you future?
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So then do we all take a sip since we're the same?
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Because I have a, I have a funny question.
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I like this question.
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Would you rather your heart light up any time you have a crush
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on somebody or like, you're attracted to somebody?
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Like, it could even be like your friend's dad or like your,
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your bro, your boyfriend's brother, like, even for a second
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like if you get turned on it lights up, would you rather that
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it could be anything?
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It could be like your friend's boyfriend and he looks so hot
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and it's like, and you feel like you or you're being exposed
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or have your butt light up if you have to go to the bathroom and
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like, you could be like, with the president, the United States
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you could be like on a date and then it lights up like Rudo Reno's
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What would you rather, what do you think about it?
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But I'm like, but what if I'm with my husband of so many years
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no matter what, you're going to find other people attracted
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looking isn't a problem but other people might be offended
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You know what I mean?
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So I'd rather be like my butt lights up and then I just wear a
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You know what I mean?
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Hard to light up every time you saw a pretty girl, I'd be like
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all the time, like, really out here real, real, real quick
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I think that's the funniest question in America.
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But that's the problem because they're gonna be watching
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And it's gonna be like light, light, light, like I wouldn't
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be able to watch any of my shows because my man's just gonna
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look at me and be like, really?
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I'm like, look at his eyes, babe, I could feel it all, you know
46:36
So, but anyway, what, what your answer I my heart you'd rather
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have your heart lighter and expose yourself.
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Yeah, like I like when a guy walks in the room and you're just
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like, then that guy gets a compliment.
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There's pretty people in the world you know, like is gonna
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be sitting with you every time that guy walks in the room lighting
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up like crazy and your man is just like looking at you like whoa
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Have a personal problem.
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But, but oh wait, you're the odd man out.
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Would you rather live in a world without color or without music
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Is that even a question about?
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Well, no, I'm like without color, without color.
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Are you sure you guys without color?
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So everything is black and white.
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Everything is just nothing people live like that all the time
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My boyfriend is partially color black a lot of men are color
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My boyfriend and his brother are both.
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You know what I mean?
47:31
But like, I love color.
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Look at all of your lips.
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Like everything color is, you would never hear color is poetry
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Music doesn't come from Color Taylor Swift.
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But I, but what would you choose?
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I think I would choose color.
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And then I just make music in my head.
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Well, you can't, music doesn't exist.
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It's a world without music or without color.
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So if music you never know it would, you wouldn't miss it.
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Well, neither would color.
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No music for anybody.
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Imagine the odd man out again.
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You guys see you tomorrow.
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You read the next one girl and this is from the Glam hotline
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Would you rather have tons of hair all over your body or not
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Tons of hair, tons of hair.
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But you can't shave it like back hair or like it would be, it
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would be on my leg right now.
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And then I'd put on a wig.
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That's what I was gonna say.
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I'd rather have no hair and put on a wig and that's not an option
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Or you're like a hairy beast.
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I think I would go naked mole rat.
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At least I'd be smooth.
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No, it wouldn't be a hairy beast.
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It would just be like So it would be, it would be like us just
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It's like a little bit of hair everywhere.
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Like a little nose, a little hairy back.
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You said hairy back.
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But we wouldn't have a hairy back.
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We wouldn't have a hairy back.
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No, you don't know that we've been shaving our whole lives
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We don't know the potential back.
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Oh, I've never shaved my back.
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So that's what we're saying.
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No, I have no hair on my back but there's other places we don't
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know how long, what would happen.
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It isn't really that long.
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Your entire life that long.
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You guys know that all this is to protect us, to protect us.
49:27
Eyebrow hair is to protect us from dust going into our eyes
49:30
Eyelashes carries the no, the eyelash do that.
49:33
But think about it is that you can lay your head and do a little
49:36
Whoever you lay it with you, you'd grow.
49:40
You just said the armpit hair is someone could use it as a pillow
49:44
What else is it for?
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I don't know, hair, follicles do stuff.
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And what is the point of armpit hair?
49:52
What are you protecting?
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I'm not God, I didn't make this shit up.
49:55
I'm just asking, where are you at?
49:58
Next, who did you drink?
50:01
There's no, there's no right answer for that.
50:02
You're gonna lose regardless.
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Well, you guys today has been to say the least fun.
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And I'm so happy to have Chelsea here.
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Of course, coming back very soon.
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So you gotta watch that on me too dot T to bring this energy back
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Like always, I'm Yvonne Rojas.
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I am Chelsea Rendon and this is girl.
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